Is Attitude Everything?

If, as I once read that my actions today determine my success tomorrow, then I should be set for a very successful future. Before we get started let me give you a small example of how I apply the above theory on a very practical level. When driving around town looking for a parking space or searching for the set of lost keys for the umpteenth time, try changing the way you think about the problem. So instead of saying I wish I could find a parking space/my lost keys etc say instead 'I am finding a car parking space/my lost keys.' Try it, even for fun and you will see how it can change the way you live your life.
Once you have tried this simple change to your thinking you have already started to tackle the underlying issue that can prevent us from moving forward; our attitude. More precisely our attitude towards ourselves and the level of control we have over what happens to us. Changing your attitude could change you life. If you find that you go around wishing for new things to happen or for something exciting to take place you need to rethink your attitude. Try focusing on what you want to achieve, then start to talk about it as if it is happening. Change the script you use and see how differently people respond to you. Instead of 'I'd love to buy a house' try 'I'm saving up for a deposit on my first home'. The next step in this example is obvious - you need to set up a savings account and deposit some cash on a regular basis, even a few pounds will make a big difference over time and watching the balance grow might spur you into greater actions!
Changing how you express what you are doing or what you want can be a big step forward in helping to reframe your attitude and the perceptions of those around you. So go on change the way you talk - your inner voice as much as the external one other people can hear and you will find that making positive changes comes naturally.